There are different stages of a woman's life; as a liitle girl,you go to the nursery school to primary school to college and to the university.at the university stage,your parents want you to study "medicine/law",it looked like all parents wanted their kids to read medicine,you pass that stage and then they want you to hook a man and they say you can only hook a man in the university. u passed that stage, either you hook a man by force or you dont get to hook any man and the pressure increases;you fall out with parents and you start a job.they come back to beg you and invite you to come home regularly and try to hook you with a friend's son or a neighbour's son.....and the presseure continues.Now good for you, you finnaly hook a man and then the pressure shows itself again:pikin...pikin...pikin;yes they want you to have children...have you notice how we introduce men in nigeria?? When a man who has a wife is to be introduced they say meet Mr B who is married to Mrs T; but if they happen to be lucky to have children they will say meet Mr B who is happily married with 3 Kids...(check out your letters at home & listen to introductions when you go for parties)so he's only happily married when he's got kids, this could mean many things:-1, he was not happily married until he had kids2, its just a society title or,3, he just decided to marry so that his parents can have grandchildren and so he is now happy because there seem to be no more pressure from home.........OR WHAT DO YOU THINK? PLS SHARE YOUR THOTS & POST IT. THEN WE WILL TRY AND CONCLUDE ON THIS SOON.YOU NEVER KNOW WHOSE LIFE YOU ARE SAVING RIGHT NOW.
Um, thats cool and thank God you talking about the society, we live in a cruel world where things dont matter until you dont have it. Money doesnt matter until they find somebody who doesnt have, houses dont matter until they find someone who dont have it, and then they send the message back to you: and make it seem its a do or die affair, as if your existence doesnt really matter. If we follow that dictates we fail ourselves. Stick to your purpose, your vision, your strength and to the strength of life. Abraham became the father of Faith, God had great respect for Him, he became to day the father of ALL even the Christians and the muslims. He had his Children in His gray years. Yet God never talked as dearly of anyone like Abraham. We never got to hear about his friends who had their kids earlier....
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